Emotional Intelligence for your Clients
a 3Day Challenge
Why do I need emotional intelligence for clients ?
1. Clients (students) need to feel connected to me, and I need to know how to create that connection.
2. The better I understand people's emotions, the better my work is.
3. I need to feel confident about my abilities and know that people will value what I have to say.
4. I need to understand people's emotions and what makes motivates them.
What is Emotional Intelligence?
Emotional intelligence is the Capacity to Integrate Feeling and Thinking to make Optimal Decisions.
EIQ means "being smart with feelings" and it's essential for connecting with your clients (students) as effective leadership, building engagement, navigating challenge, motivating, and implementing change while maintaining Balance with Ease.
The Skills of emotional intelligence have Practical application in Numerous Areas of Personal and Professional performance.
1. Emotional intelligence is the ability to identify and manage your own emotions and those of other people.
2. It will improve your working and personal relationships.
3. It allows you to manage your stress levels.
Rooted in science, and based on Social Intelligence needs, Emotional Intelligence coaching includes (but is not limited to)
1. self-awareness,
2. self-control,
3. empathy,
4. teamwork, and
5. adaptability.
Wen you manage your Adaptability everything in your life flows with more Ease.
Isn't this exactly what you need?
How do You Ease?
What does emotional intelligence do for me ?
1. It helps me to feel comfortable around people who are different than me.
2. It helps me stay calm when unexpected things happen
3. It helps me see things from other people's perspectives
4. It helps me make better choices
5. It helps me adapt and deal with change
6. It helps me respond and adapt to feedback
7. It helps me develop better relationships
Emotional intelligence begins with "the capacity for recognizing your own feelings and those of others," for Motivating yourself, and for Managing your Emotions well and your relationships.
In other words, those who develop Emotional Intelligence Skills have a greater Ability to Influence, Persuade, and Connect with others, which ultimately Elevates the way they communicate.
Emotional Intelligence may not come naturally to some of us, it is a critical skill that needs to be Learned and Practiced by anyone who needs to build and maintain strong, effective relationships.
This is especially important for practitioners, coaches and those who manage, lead, influence to successfully engage others.
What does it take to be emotionally intelligent?
According to psychologist Daniel Goleman, who popularized and wrote extensively about the concept, there are five components of emotional intelligence:
#1
Self Awareness
Self-awareness is the ability to recognize and understand your own emotions and is a critical emotional intelligence skill. Beyond just recognizing your emotions, however, being aware of the effect of your actions, moods, and emotions on other people is key.
#2
Self Management
Self-regulation is all about expressing your emotions appropriately. Self-Management, or self-regulation, can be defined as the ability to manage one’s actions, thoughts, and feelings in flexible ways to get the desired results.
Optimal self-regulation contributes to a sense of well-being, a sense of self-efficacy or confidence, and a sense of connected-ness to others.
#3
Social Awareness
Social Awareness is the ability to accurately notice the emotions of others and “read” situations appropriately. It is about sensing what other people are thinking and feeling to be able to take their perspective using your capacity for empathy.
Social skills is what helps people build meaningful relationships with other people and develop a stronger understanding of themselves and others.
#4
Empathy
Empathy is the ability to understand how others are feeling and your appropriate response to people based on this understanding.
Empathy is not sympathy. Empathy takes other people’s feelings into thoughtful consideration and then we can make an intelligent decision in respond to those feelings.
Strong empathy skills also help us get along better with others who see things differently from us. Careful listening with empathy can help avoid these misunderstandings.
#5
Motivation
Motivation is what causes you to act, whether it is getting a glass of water to reduce thirst or reading a book to gain knowledge. Motivation makes up the behavior process that initiates, guides, and maintains goals.
Motivation involves the biological, emotional, social, and cognitive forces that activate behavior.
Emotionally intelligent people are not motivated by external rewards like fame, money, recognition and acclaim.
Why FeelFulness for Emotional Intelligence Skills?
#1
Double your Emotional Intelligence
Recognizing and Increasing your Understanding and Levels of Emotional Intelligence may be more important to your life than that of your general intelligence.
Learning how to Heighten your Awareness and improve your Understanding of emotions, how to appropriately express them and how to Change them when they do not lead to a more fulfilled life.
A life where we feel every emotion yet do not live in any one emotion, where we know how to be more effective with our emotional states and how to develop each area of our lives to ensure we are never "over-run" by emotions.
#2
Feel a Feeling by Choice
Understanding and Increasing Awareness we already know how to do.
But Feeling a Feeling by Choice when we need to Change an emotion that does not lead to a fulfilled life, is a completely different skill-set.
Not only will you learn to ensure you are never "over-run" by emotions but you will learn hoe to GENERATE a FEELING that will lead to an Emotion.
#3
Generate States of Being
Effortlessly Generating a State for your clients begins with mastering Generating a Feeling that Leads to a State, having a clear discernment over the similarities and differences over the emoti-flavors (gradients) between various states of being (not just state of mind).
Once mastered, your generated state can be made available or transferred so-to-speak to your client or an audience (colleagues, family, or group of people).
Carmen Sauciuc, CHt
(she/her)
Hi,
My name is Carmen Sauciuc,
I'm your Feelfulness expert with 12 years of Applied neuro-linguistics experience and Emotional Intelligence SKILLS coaching.
When I first discovered feelfulness’ potential for influence and motivation, my life took a 90-degree turn. This is the reason I authored the book and created this website because feelfulness’ potential for generating a state (feeling a feeling by choice) is unrivaled.
Did I say unrivaled? and exceptionally efficient?
Feelfulness techniques with Word Triangles through Thought-Feeling practices- are the exact tools you need to become a powerful influencer.
I’ve coined the term "Feelfulness" in 2011
and I'll show you HOW
1. to unleash the power of your Thought-Feelings with Word Triangles (neuro-language)
2. to re-direct your stream of thoughts (thought management)
3. to shift your mindset (re-pattern) and
4. create a desired consciousness (Generating States of... )
5. to productively register it in your Muscle Memory (automatic habits).
... for both Therapeutic Purposes, Peak Perfomrance Skills or Mastery.
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Motivate
The world as we know is changing and People Helpers need to continually evolve to keep up. The traditional way of working where practitioners specialized in just one area is fast becoming a foreign concept and the era of the multi-skilled, multi-disciplinary Helping Practitioner is here.
As you link your values and beliefs to expectations, so you can link your expectations to motivation. If you expect to achieve the outcome you want, you are going to be very motivated to take action to make that happen
2
Influence
Becoming a multi-skilled people helper requires, not only innovative concepts but also offering the support needed by both new and experienced practitioners alike.
Because generating a specific state can be made available or transferred so-to-speak to your clients, family, or group of people, you wish to positively influence.
Through feelfulness techniques I’ve observed people’s capacity to do both. To positively influence their emotions and the emotions of others.
3
Create
More often than not, training comes to an end and you are "on your own" as you start to find your way, this leads to many promising practitioners confused and overwhelmed.
I am here to give you both the training AND the support you need to become an effective people helper along with the help you need to grow your business so that you can go on and help others.
Power
Thoughts and feelings affect who you become and what you achieve and when you have the power to change them, you gain the power to change your turn of events, your health, and your relationships.
Learning how to use the Power of your Thought-Feelings with Word Triangles for Peak Performance to Generate Desired States (feel a feeling by choice) will benefit for both therapeutic purpose, peak performance skills or mastery.
Transformative, unlike any other skills: Guaranteed!
This 3 day challenge will help you:
1. Identify negative thinking patterns
2. Understand them at a deeper level and
3. Negotiate them out of your beliefs .
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Testimonials
"I hope people catch on to what’s happening here with these particular classes because it’s something very special. Unlike any course I’ve encountered so far. Higher-level content. I’m still new but what I can say is, in general, watch/listen to these lessons repeatedly. Let it wash over you and maybe as you do you can enjoy just wondering what it might be like to experience something new, something expansive, the sort of thing that most everyone truly wants at a deeper level. You’ll see, you’ll know." Christopher J
"by God that was at least 100% of shared engagement and presence and modeling what it was you were communicating... I thought that was phenomenal it was a whole different level from all the demonstrations I've seen thus far in the intensives... because the danger with a lot of these exercises is that people are putting quite a bit of emotions into trying to tie the technique but you just said the heck with that and you Embodied it and you Were There and that's what I picked up and Felt what you were doing so that was highly impressive stuff, a whole 'nother level ... " JohnFL,
"I can see how being focused from higher mind allows us better and more accurate productivity. The higher mind is more complex. We need to learn to relax and clear our minds. We need to find ways to focus on our inner thoughts. In order to achieve better attention and a more focused mind. We need to become self aware and adapt a new and clearer way of thinking. It's interesting that when you focus on an image how the mind knows how to concentrate better. It's nice to be so relaxed and at ease. Becoming more self aware and being more present is a good skill to have." Nick Y, USA
“The most amazing effect from doing this work, totally, incredibly life changing! I find myself not “reacting” to other people’s “stuff” much anymore! I feel wonderful in my body and mind. My relationships have gotten better and easier. My business relationships have improved. And, especially interesting, is that I’m happy without effort!!! Thank you so much, Carmen, for your patience and dedication! This has been one of the most precious experiences in my life. What a gift. Please don’t stop your work! I can’t wait for another session.” Ania W
“In this crazy and quickly moving world, as most of us are, I struggle keeping up with demands, overwhelm, procrastination, lack of energy and focus, skewed self image and lack of confidence. I do not know what kind higher powers this wonderful lady has, but just after few classes, I felt so much mental clarity, focus, energy and was able to do in one day what I was putting off and finding excuses not to do in weeks. Thank you." August K
“There are many "big-hat coaches" nowadays that claim to have a vast amount of information that can "change your life" and while they may offer phenomenal information that may in-fact alter one's trajectory, I have yet to come across a MENTOR who EXPLAINS in detail the importance of chosen Thoughts and Feelings and how to use them effectively to achieve my results. I applaud you, for your impeccable crystal clear guidance and instruction in this universe of "abstract" and Thank you for your beautiful spirit." Joy J
Carmen Sauciuc
Carmen Sauciuc is the creator of FeelFulness® Feel a Feeling by Choice, building on the wonderful work of Dr. Carl Jung: Individuation, Dr. William James: Functionalism, Dr. Milton Erickson: Tailoring & Utilization, and Dr. Martin Seligman: Maximizing Human Potential, Applied Positive Psychology.
Feelfulness® is a practice designed to help you generate specific states of being and develop or modify your traits. It takes the concept of mindfulness to even greater depths by allowing you to become aware of your emotional states and then modify or influence it positively, all made possible by the incredible power of neuroplasticity. Feelfulness® -Feel a Feeling by Choice- employs methods where a feeling /emotion is experienced in anticipation by using unique linguistic elements such as evocators, movers, and descriptors arranged in triplicates, to evoke an experience in which you can cultivate a positive psychological state and develop new or modify existing personality traits.
Carmen Sauciuc is board certified by American Board of Hypnotherapy, International Association of Counselor and Therapists, International Certification Board of Coaches and Hypnotists, American Board of NeuroLinguistics, trained with the Milton H. Erickson Foundation, is a Contemporary Shaman, a Reiki Master Teacher and designs Thought-Feeling® practices as Feelfulness® techniques for both therapeutic purpose, peak performance and mastery.
Carmen Sauciuc coined the term “Feelfulness®” in 2011. A Mensa member and an international best-selling author Carmen professes “all it takes is willingness” and by deliberately practicing chosen thought-feelings on a regular basis you experience a significant tangible shift in your State of Being. The verb To Be is an example of a "State" which relates to the State of Being. In other words, if you ARE, then you are in the State of Being.
The masterful self never entertains a feeling which does not contribute to a desired achievable outcome. This is the secret of Mastery!
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